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Msgr. Stephen J. Rossetti is a leading
authority on the Catholic priesthood in
America. He is a gifted priest, an eminent
psychologist and researcher, a man who
understands the minds and hearts of priests.
When he speaks, people listen.
Msgr. Rossetti has just published a
groundbreaking study on the U.S. priesthood,
a study drawn largely from 2009
research that gathered information from
2,482 priests in 23 dioceses across the
country. The findings are supplemented
by a 2004 research project,
studying 1,242 priests from 16 dioceses.
The large-scale study focuses upon
the psychological and spiritual health
of Catholic priests. Using modern statistical
analysis, sophisticated software
and standardized psychological testing,
Msgr. Rossetti compares this cohort of
priests to normative samples drawn from
the general population. His findings are
strong, replicable and consistent.
In the words of national Catholic
columnist John Allen, Msgr. Rossetti’s
book helps clear away “the debris of myth
and public prejudice” frequently associated
with the priesthood in America, and helps
the Church to focus on the very real challenges
facing the priesthood today.
In short, the Rossetti study concludes
that “priests, as a group, are very happy
men. They like priesthood. They are committed
to it. They find much satisfaction in
their lives and ministries. In fact, the satisfaction
rates of priests are among the highest
of any way of life or vocation in the
United States.”
Msgr. Rossetti’s findings present good
news for Church and culture: “Priesthood
consistently measures as perhaps the most
fulfilling and satisfying vocation of any.
Priests reported levels of happiness that are
remarkably high and consistent across
many studies ... Nor are their lives unhealthy;
they are much less burned-out,
more satisfied, and less psychologically
impaired than their lay counterparts.”
In Msgr. Rossetti’s words, “The happiness
of priesthood ought to
be made publicly
known and kept a
secret no
longer.”
As he examines
the
elements in a priest’s life that are responsible
for bringing him satisfaction and joy in
his vocation, an overall theme emerges:
The centrality of a priest’s spiritual life is
the core and source of his inner peace,
wellbeing and personal joy. A deep and
personal sense of God’s love remains the
bedrock and treasure of our priests’ lives,
and explains many of the astounding findings
contained in the Rossetti study.
As he reviewed the variables that correlated
highly with priestly happiness and
morale, several elements emerged.
- Being happy first and foremost comes
from within. Happiness in priesthood is affected
by what the priest brings to priesthood,
not what is imposed upon him from
the outside. This sense of inner peace transcends
the climate and pressures of the day.
Priesthood is a spiritual life. To be a happy
priest necessarily includes having a strong
relationship to God and nurturing that relationship
daily with typical priestly practices.
Clearly in first place is the joy of
administering the sacraments and presiding
over liturgy.
- A second important variable predicting
priestly happiness is the priest’s variable
view of celibacy. The Rossetti data demonstrate
that how a priest comes to grips with
his commitment to celibacy is critical to
how happy he will be as a priest. This variable
directly probes whether this deep integration
of priestly celibacy has taken
place in the priest’s life. Seventy-five percent
of the survey participants agreed or
strongly agreed that celibacy has been a
personal grace, and 78.2 percent agreed or
strongly agreed that “God has called me to
live a celibate life.”
- A third predictor of happiness and
morale is described under the heading of
relationship to God. One cannot overstate
the importance of a priest’s personal relationship
with God. It is the strongest predictor
of the first variable, inner peace. A
priest simply will not be a happy priest unless
he has a personal and direct relationship
to God that is nourishing him. Msgr.
Rossetti asks, “How can one be and function
as a priest without such a relationship?”
- The fourth factor he examines is a
priest’s relationship to his bishop. “Priestly
spirituality recognizes the deep bond between
bishop and priest,” he writes. “Much
more than a secular boss, a bishop is spiritual
father, brother, coworker, and friend;
his priests are an extension of his own
apostolic ministry. Therefore it is no wonder
that priests are strongly affected by the
relationship with their bishop.”
Msgr. Rossetti investigates a number of
other factors affecting priests’ morale and
psychological and spiritual health. They include
such things as priests’ ability to support
and relate to one another; the capacity
for building close friendships within the
priesthood and among the laity; the priest’s
devotion to Mary; and the importance of
participating in gatherings of priests who
express support for one another—the annual
Chrism Mass, retreats and convocations
of priests. These support and enhance
fraternal communion.
Msgr. Rossetti concludes his study by
offering advice to seminary and formation
personnel, priests and bishops. John Allen
adds advice for the laity.
Advice to seminary and formation personnel:
Work intensely with seminarians on
their spiritual formation, fostering a direct,
personal relationship with God. Train the
seminarians and younger priests to see
celibacy is a gift from God and to see it as
a personal grace. Assist seminarians in
their development of good friendships, and
screen out seriously isolated men. Do not
underestimate the impact of a dysfunctional
childhood, and a background of
childhood mental problems, on the future
success and happiness of a priest. Screening
prospective priesthood candidates for a
history of sexual problems remains critical.
Do not overlook obesity in a candidate, and
ask what a priest’s obesity means.
Advice to the priests:
Give thanks to God for the vocation to
the priesthood. Let people know about the
joy of your priesthood. Give primacy to
your relationship to God. Foster good
friendships, and focus on the traditional elements
of a priests’ spiritual life, including
the sacrament of reconciliation, the daily
Holy Hour, the Liturgy of the Hours, theological
and spiritual reading, the annual retreat
and filial devotion to Mary. Work on
priestly unity in the entire presbyterate.
Foster priestly support through support
groups, social gatherings and opportunities
for common prayer. Love and support the
bishop. Be aware that the signs of burn out,
depression and anxiety must be managed.
Learn to deal with stress in healthy ways.
Exercise and lose weight. Take your
weekly day off, as well as an annual vacation.
Advice to bishops:
Affirm your priests often. Be encouraged
that the majority of your priests love
you, support you and obey you. Make supporting
priests’ spiritual lives a priority.
Understand that priests need help with their
workloads. Priests need to know they will
be dealt with fairly. Younger priests need
solid mentoring and support. Continue to
make healing resources readily available if
a priest is considering leaving priesthood.
Help him to assess his personal and spiritual
life before considering departure. Have
diocesan programs available to ensure that
priests maintain a proper weight, exercise,
eat healthfully, receive medical checkups
regularly and receive proper time off.
Advice to laity:
In words he offers to the lay community,
John Allen provides an insightful collusion
to Msgr. Rossetti’s landmark study.
“If I were to offer a recommendation to
rank and file Catholics based on Rossetti’s
data,” Allen writes, “it would boil down to
this: The priests of this country obviously
love serving you and ministering to you,
because otherwise there’s no way to explain
why they are basically happy, in the
teeth of a culture which constantly tells
them they’re not supposed to be. They love
you. Try to love them back.”
I am personally grateful to Msgr.
Stephen Rossetti for an outstanding and invaluable
study, which will help all of us to
understand, celebrate and tell others with
insight and conviction why priests are
happy.
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