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I frequently hear parents and grandparents
lament that their young-adult daughters
or sons no longer practice the Catholic
faith. Their concern often is followed with
the words, “We sent them to Catholic
schools (or to religious education), but
they have opted out of the Church.”
When I hear those concerns, I ask,
“What are we as parents, parish and
diocesan leaders doing to engage young
adults in the life of the Church?” Are
young adults even on our radar screen in
the faith community? Have we made the
Church a place of warmth and welcome
for 18- to 35-year-olds? Following the
Diocesan Pastoral Council process, diocesan
leadership is taking on a new and
exciting initiative to engage, in the life of
the Church, this highly
diverse group of young
adults.
Our capital campaign
has made it possible
to expand our outreach
to this wonderful,
energetic and spiritually
hungry group of
Catholics.
Mr. Dan Bartleson,
the regional director for
Reach Youth Ministry,
has accepted an invitation
to collaborate with
the Office of Youth and
Young Adult Ministry in
the Diocese of Helena.
This collaboration will
serve as a catalyst for
young-adult ministry
and as a resource for
parish leadership to find
new and innovative ways to open the doors
of the Church to this generation of believers.
How will we proceed? Where do we
begin in this exciting but massive undertaking?
As in the past, our process begins with
active listening, prayerful discernment and
meaningful engagement with those who
will be the beneficiaries of this important
ministry.
Young-adult ministry eschews the
notion that “one size fits all.” Adults of the
ages 21 to 35 are in very different developmental
places. Each group has a particular
set of needs.
Research published in a study titled
“Connecting Young Adults to Catholic
Parishes” indicates that 21- to 25-year-olds
often are just getting settled in their first
full-time jobs and are “least likely to be
present in parish life.”
People in the second
group, mid to
late 20s, often
still are single,
still discerning
a career or a vocation and
frequently “boomeranging”
between the parental
home and independent
living. They are actively
seeking their place in
life.
People in the third
group, late 20s to mid
30s, frequently are starting
families, establishing
vocational roots and
looking for ways to not
only deepen their own
faith, but also to hand it
on to their children.
Church leadership
must be aware of the differences
within the
young-adult community,
but also understand what
this wide array of young
adults holds in common.
As Dan Bartleson and
his prospective team of volunteers
begin to examine ways to minister
in and among the young-adult communities,
I anticipate they will hear a number of
common themes:
- Each group will desire deeper communion
with Jesus Christ, especially
through the celebration of Word and sacrament.
Each will express a need for greater
understanding of their Catholic faith and
tradition, an endeavor of both head and
heart.
- They will ask for greater opportunities
for peer support in the practice of their
faith. They will seek new opportunities to
socialize with other believing Catholics.
They will ask to explore service opportunities,
especially among the poor, and will
express a desire to give testimony about
their faith to younger generations.
- They will ask for theological formation
in Catholic social and moral teaching,
as they attempt to navigate the rough
waters involved with faithful living.
- They will desire retreat, pilgrimage
and prayer opportunities, and they will
desire to share their faith journey with
other Catholics.
- They will ask for dialogue with priests
and Church leaders on the hot-button topics
of the day.
- They will undoubtedly seek opportunities
to serve the wider faith community
as future lay ecclesial ministers.
The Diocese of Helena is ready to take
on this new and exciting adventure.
The August edition of The Montana Catholic
will have a feature article on the
collaboration, by the diocesan Office of
Youth and Young Adult Ministry and
Reach Youth Ministry, to provide particular
ministry for our young adults.
Parents and grandparents, lift up your
hearts! Catholicism stays in the blood and
your young adults, even those away from
the Church, are likely longing for deep
spiritual meaning in their lives. In the
months ahead, we will once more open our
doors to welcome this blessed group of
seekers, and invite them to come with us
on a pilgrimage of faith.
Published in The Montana Catholic Online, Volume 26, No. 7, July 16, 2010.
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